Anger

Five alphabet word which doesn't lasts for five seconds but hampers our brain more than five minutes.

I hate being angry specially on someone whom I love the most. I start hating myself more when I am angry on some one who loves me the most.
Sometimes in the heat of the moment we forget to think that what comes from our mouths stays a bit longer in our brains than our ears.

But you can't stop your anger. It's an another obvious human emotion like smiling. I believe neither we can avoid being angry. At some point of time the most patient person looses it. What can be done to this?

The very first thing is an apology! Even if you are not at fault, sometimes bending in front of your loved ones and taking the blame not just solves your problem but also shows the effort that the person is more important to you than the emotion.

If you are not at fault leave the other person alone. Or make yourself aloof. Because wounds heal with time. When anger goes out of your limits because of other person's fault don't hype the situation. Just stay calm. As always said - Speech is silver, silence is golden!

In the end you will have one of the two results. You will be forgiven. Or you need to forgive the other person.

Don't avoid being angry. Learn to change your anger to another form of emotion.

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